Often in or outside of work you ask people to help you to do something or go somewhere and often you hear back that they are 'busy'. We understand this and sometimes may even feel a little sympathetic.
We are conditioned by the media and modern life to be busy, we all now lead increasingly busier lives in our on-demand 24/7 culture, in fact I cannot remember at work the last time I met someone who wasn’t busy!
But is it true that people can be too busy to do things? And if not, why do they say it?
I believe that nobody is in fact too busy to do anything. Yes it is true that people have things that need to be done but saying 'I’m too busy' or 'I can’t do that I’m busy' is just an excuse. What they are really saying is 'I’m prioritising something else over what you are asking'.
Next time, just before you say that you’re busy, remember that it might just be an excuse. If you truly prioritise something, you will and can make time for it. Be it work, relationships, friendships or something else – you always have time for anything if you make it and value it enough.
Why do people say they are too busy? Why use the excuse of busy, why not be honest?
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